Her Jobless Roommate Had A Meltdown Because She Didn't Pay Her Portion Of The Rent Again This Month.

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This 24-year-old mother lives in an apartment with her five-year-old daughter, Lila, and her 26-year-old friend, Amy.

Since their high school days, she and Amy have maintained a strong bond. Once they both found themselves single, Amy suggested that they move in together, believing it would help ease their financial responsibilities.

She consented, and everything was progressing smoothly until Amy lost her job a few months back. Amy had been working in car sales, but her income relied solely on commissions.

Amy's venture ultimately failed, and she attributed her unemployment to everyone except herself. She cited the economy, her supervisor, and what she perceived as unrealistic expectations as the factors that led to her inability to keep her position.

At first, she empathized with Amy and tried her hardest to support her, but it became clear that Amy wasn't interested in finding a job.

"Her days are primarily filled with binge-watching Netflix, hanging out with friends, and endlessly scrolling through TikTok. She insists that she's on the job hunt, yet when I inquire about interviews or any updates, she tends to sidestep the questions with ambiguous responses such as, 'It's a process' or 'I'm just waiting for a reply,' she shared."

“Last month, she was unable to pay her portion of the rent. I ended up stepping in to cover for her as I wanted to avoid late fees or the possibility of eviction.”

“She promised to pay me back, but as of today, I haven’t seen a penny. Now, the rent is due again, and she just casually said, “You’ll have to spot me again. I’ll figure it out soon.”

She communicated to Amy that her current financial situation does not allow her to keep up with her portion of the rent.

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As a single mother, she strives tirelessly to support her daughter, Lila, and finances are tight. Just a month ago, when she covered Amy’s share of the rent, it depleted the small emergency savings she had managed to accumulate.

She can no longer continue assisting Amy, as it affects her own stability. When she communicated this to her, the response was far from positive.

"Amy exploded with anger when I suggested she had to make a decision—whether it meant asking her parents for financial help, parting with some of her high-end possessions (like her designer handbags and shoes), or returning to live with her family," she continued.

“She claimed I was devoid of compassion, exclaiming, ‘I believed we were friends! You know I would have done this for you if the situation were switched.’”

"I understand your feelings, but I believe I've already contributed quite a bit, and I can't put Amy first right now."

She finds herself questioning whether it's wrong to stop providing Amy with financial support for her rent. What's your perspective on this?

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